How To Increase Attraction - Part 2

4.) Wealth

Ok, this one is a little controversial, people who think like this are usually considered to be “shallow”, however, I’m going to tell you that nearly everyone thinks about it on some level.

I’m sure you know that there are women out there who are looking for rich men, looking for men to take care of them (financially), they are often called “gold diggers”.

Well, even if that’s not the sole interest of a woman, it’s still a factor, in other words, a guy with a bit of cash will usually have an advantage over a guy with not a penny to his name.

This is just another factor of attraction.

5.) Direction/Goals

You’ve probably heard people say things about others like “he’s not going anywhere with his life” or “he’s always going to be a nobody”.

These types of sayings are usually brought on by the way a man is heading with his life, for example, a man who has a minimum wage job and has no intention of getting a better one may have things like this said about him, another guy who is working at a large company with lots of room for promotion, he may not have things like this said about him.

This can apply to other areas of life than work, however, it’s usually related to the occupation a person has and where they are headed.

A man who has goals and is working towards achieving those goals is often more attractive than a man with no goals or direction.

6.) Grooming - Fashion

This is one of the more obvious factors of attraction.

This is simply how you take care of your physical appearance and present yourself, things like:
How you style your hair
Your complexion
The way you dress

Basically just taking care of your physical appearance and trying to look your best.

Again, I’ll use an example, in most cases, a guy wearing some nice clothes and with a clean face and good hair style will have more success with the ladies than a slob who hasn’t washed in a week and is wearing a pair of baggy trousers and T-shirt.

Those are six of, in my opinion, the most important factors when it comes to attraction. There are many, many factors involved, far too many to list them all here, however, those six should be a great focus point for you at the moment.

As I mentioned at the beginning of this section, a lot of it comes down to raw physical appearance, I mean, like I said, men are naturally attracted to beautiful women and vice versa.

You may think you are not a great looking guy, however, you can make a huge difference with some simple little things.

Have you ever seen one of those makeover shows on television?

They take a “normal” person and transform them into a beauty, well, a lot of the people they use really are, in my opinion, ugly when they first appear but at the end of the show, they look great.

Think about it, they didn’t give them plastic surgery to change their actual face, no, it’s just a change in presentation that makes such a difference.

Here’s some simple tips for you to work on your physical appearance:

Wash your face regularly to keep it clean.

If you look better with no facial hair then shave everyday.

Dress nicely - This one’s so easy yet some guys are just too lazy to even put on a nice shirt in the morning.

Workout - This is one of my top recommendations, it can have more benefits than just simply improving the appearance of your body, it can boost your self-esteem too.

Test different hairstyles - Some guys keep the same boring hair style for years and years, they don’t even think to try out different styles.

Those are just some things you can think about when it comes to working on your physical appearance.

You should remember that it’s not entirely down to physical appearance, so don’t get too discouraged by that.

When it comes to getting an ex girlfriend to come back to you, you already know that she is attracted to you on some level simply because of the fact that she was with you before.

You just need to work on increasing the attraction levels she already has for you.