How To Increase Attraction - Part 1

A HUGE part of getting an ex girlfriend back and in the world of dating in general is just basic old attraction.

Think about it, what’s the first thing you notice about a woman when you look at her, it’s how attractive she is.

It can be very easily summed up like this:

Men are attracted to attractive women.

Women are attracted to attractive men.

Now, this can sometimes be based entirely on a person’s face and body, I mean, when you see a model posing in a magazine with an amazing body and beautiful face, you’re instantly attracted to her.

So, if you’re a good looking guy then you instantly have an advantage, however, that’s not everything.

Now, there are, of course, other factors involved when it comes to increasing attraction, some may seem quite superficial or shallow, however, you should still think about them.

1.) Social Image

This one is at play pretty much all the time and yet very few people actually realise it.

Let me give you an example, two guys in a club with equal levels of physical attraction, one guy is sitting alone in the corner, the other is sitting in the middle with a bunch of friends and women around him, which one do you think has the better social image?

Obviously it’s the second one, he is showing that he is quite a “popular” guy, he has plenty of friends and there are women with him, maybe even chasing him, this guy looks more promising than the loner sitting in the corner.

That’s about as simple as I can explain it. Social image is at play all the time, everywhere you go, everyone you’re with, how people talk about you, stories about you, how people look at you and so on.

If you’re known as being a “popular” guy, then you have an advantage.

2.) Sense Of Humour

Yes, this is one of the more commonly known ones, I’m sure you’ve probably heard people say that a good sense of humour is very important when it comes to attraction and dating.

Well, simply put, a good sense of humour is certainly a good quality.

Now, this doesn’t mean that you have to go around telling jokes to everyone you meet or anything like that. It also doesn’t mean that you have to be a comedian to get any interest from a woman.

It’s just another factor involved in attraction, if you’re a funny guy with a good sense of humour, use that, let people know that you’re fun to be around by being fun when you’re around them.

3.) Passion

This is one that I think is very important.

If you’re passionate about things, about life, then it will naturally show to the people you interact with.

Let me give you an example for this, there are two guys with equal levels of physical attraction, one guy is lazy and doesn’t really have any interest or passion for anything other than sitting in front of the television, the other guy has a passion for exercising, cars, insert passion here.

Who do you think will be more attractive to women, the lazy guy sitting watching T.V. or the passionate guy out doing what he loves and achieving his goals?

Remember, they are both as physically attractive as each other.

You see the point I’m making.